Awww, somebody likes my lil ol' blog...

SO I GOT NOMINATED. I WON'T WIN, BUT IM EXCITED NONETHELESS. SO VOTE FOR ME! EACH NOMINATION IS A VOTE
HERE'S THE LINK
GET TO IT! LOL

http://www.blackweblogawards.com

THANKS GUYS
STAR

HEY HEY HEY

this

thats all

*STAR*

Hyena's have brains! Well I'll be damned! LOL

I get post ideas from the strangest places sometimes.
Anyway...
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What makes you gay? I mean, not did something occur to you in your life to make you become attracted to the same sex. I mean, what is it specifically? Is it the attraction or the act? Let me explain the question.


Would you consider a man gay if he liked for his wife to use a strap on him? Never had any desire to actually be physical with a man. He just enjoyed being penetrated, by his wife, whom he loves dearly.


What about a cross-dressing man who only dates women. No homosexual tendencies, just REALLY enjoys womens clothing and women. Strange I know, but it happens. 


Would you consider either of the people in question gay? Why or why not? 


Let ya girl know...


*Twinkle*

No Time Like The Present (locked and Loaded Lite)

I just wanted to say something....

But I cant remember what it was....

So imma say this instead:

Never say Never

Relationships are difficult, but nothing is more complicated than love

Whoever said money can't by love was out of their damn minds

Gay sh*t goes>>>here

I gots to go.

Starra

Eye See Now

I try not too get too personal on my little blog. From time to time I may talk about the Drama and my Momma. My son is freaking hilarious (and I am a super proud mom), so I think the world should know about that. I never really go too deep in detail about my relationships. Other than a vague mention here and there (well, except that one time) I have always tried to keep that to myself, for a couple of reasons. Right now, unfortunately, I find myself without a way to express what I am feeling other than to post about it here. Well, bitches, its my blog, I paid for it so here goes.

Love is the most ridiculous thing. Its up there with marriage and religion. Just plain crazy as hell. Out of the three, though, love is the one thing that we mere mortals have no control over. Now you may not practice any religion or ever get married. Those things, for the most part, are choices. There's no way to control with whom or when or how hard you fall in love. So I am going to put it out there that I am in love with someone that I can't be with. I can't see her, I can't touch her, talk to her, almost can't stand the thought of her... yet and still I love her with all my heart.

And there's not a damn thing I can do about it.
And it hurts like hell.

I want so badly to be able to scream and curse and all of those things that you do when you're mad, but I can't. The trouble is, I'm not mad at all. Hurt. Devastated. Defeated. Those words apply . Mad, does not.

I said in a prior post that I am not a gambler. This situation has made me realize that, that's not entirely accurate. I gamble often and I bet BIG. Forever is a long time and Never say Never. Time heals all wounds and this too, shall pass. Yeah insert your favorite cliche here: 

Whatever. All I know this: All I know is this. I love that damn girl. Always will. All I can do is move forward, but its gonna be a long time before I move on.

Yep, I hear you loud and clear...

*Star*

I'm not stopping...

I got a LOT of comments on my last post about being "Turned Out." All of them came to my blackberry though. After the 10th one I was about to scream. I love ya'll, truly I do, but lets go over this one mo'gin. This is a blog. It is my public forum to the world. Feel free to comment on anything I say on sistahstar.com. Feel free to do it on SISTAHSTAR.COM. I get credit for anything said on here and I get advertising, and its important to me. So the next time I saw something that you find funny/crazy/ interesting/grammatically effed up (which will happen often cuz I blog lit half the time), please click the little link at the bottom that says, 0 comments (or however many comments there may be) and tell the world how you feel. You can even post anonymously, like my beloved girlfriend, (side-eyeing, hmph).
Another thing that I have found out is that I have a lot of supporters who are straight, and because of that they won't join my blog. I have been told by many a straight chick how much they like what i'm saying and how funny they think I am, but they can't follow the purple brick road... Unfortunate. Again, I say you can be anonymous on here. No problem. I just wnat to know that i'm getting through to somebody. If my little blog causes one young "lady' not to fight her friend in the club over their homegirl or stops one young man from leaving home with a rainbow belt/suspenders/earring/ combination, than I will feel like a success.
Ok thats all for now...
Thanks guys
*Star*

YEAH BABY!

Jun. 17, 2009
Same-Sex Partners To Get Fed Benefits

President Barack Obama, whose gay and lesbian supporters have grown frustrated with his slow movement on their priorities, is extending benefits to same-sex partners of federal employees, a White House official said.

Obama planned to announce his decision Wednesday in the Oval Office, the official said. The official spoke on the condition of anonymity because Obama had not signed a presidential memorandum putting his plan into place.
The decision is a political nod to a reliably Democratic voting bloc that has become impatient with the White House in recent weeks.
Several powerful gay fundraisers withdrew their support from a Democratic National Committee event June 25 where Vice President Joe Biden is expected to speak. Their exit came in response to a Justice Department brief last week that defended the Defense of Marriage Act, a prime target for gay and lesbian criticism.
Gays and lesbians also fretted as the White House declined to intervene in the cases of enlisted military members facing courts-martial for defying the Clinton-era "don't ask, don't tell" policies. Gays and lesbians can serve in the military now if they do not disclose their sexuality or engage in homosexual behavior.
White House officials say they want Congress to repeal the policy as part of a "lasting and durable" solution, instead of intervening on individual cases.
"The president agreed that ... the policy wasn't working for our national interests, that he committed to change that policy, that he's working with the secretary of defense and the joint chiefs on making that happen," White House spokesman Robert Gibbs said last month.
The administration has tried to make small, quiet moves to extend benefits to gays and lesbians. The State Department has promised to give partners of gay and lesbian diplomats many benefits, such as diplomatic passports and language training.
But Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton's promises left out financial benefits such as pensions. Obama's move could make that shift.
Richard Socarides, a New York lawyer and former senior adviser on gay rights issues to President Bill Clinton, was taking a wait-and-see attitude on Obama's announcement.
"If it doesn't include health insurance, if he doesn't talk about the military and about the (Justice Department) brief, I think it will fall short," Socarides said in an e-mail late Tuesday. "Right now, people are looking for real action."

John Berry, head of the Office of Personnel Management and the highest-ranking gay official in the administration, told a gay rally last weekend that Obama planned to take action on benefits soon.

this bullsh*t

So ummm, yeah. I came out of my house finally. I figured Pride was as good a time as any to step out and try and have some fun. Uh, I was sadly mistaken. I live in Memphis(most of the time), and the trouble with that is the fact that there aint sh*t EVER poppin'. Not from lack of effort, but from lack of f*cking support and overall hating b.s. Soooo many people have tried to do things, you know, create stuff for the fam to do. But mofo's dont support shit. The only thing that ever stays crunk is the gay club cuz you know the new booty's are gonna party no matter what. But if you're over 22, wut the hell are you supposed to do at the gay club? Babysit? Chaperone? Wut?! I can't stand this shit not one more pride. I'm putting Memphis on blast. From here on out. I am a native and I have the RIGHT to speak on this shit.

I am going out every night this pride week. I'm going to document this from beginning to end. This should get very interesting.

*Note* I have video of some of the foolishness from last nights "event". As soon as I get my Blackberry to stop timing out while i'm uploading the video, i'll post it on here. It is hilarious.

Nik

Series update...again

As I am still currently blogging from my beloved Blackberry or this antiquated dinosur of a p.c, I am going to wait a little longer before I post ome of the responses from the Strapology series. Something iterestin that I have noticed about the things I've been recieving is that, everyone has been telling their first time story. I was thinking more along the lines of tips and tricks to using the man when I made the request for susbmissions, but this is even more interesting.

Things that make you go hmmm.

Nik

Stepping my game up

I am really into blogging. Have been for a long time. I just never took the time to sit down and do it like I should. Because of the fact that I truly belive in this particular blog and what it can be, I am going to give it the attention that it deserves. So understand that this little blog of mine is a work in progress. There is so very much more to come besides the typed ramblings of my mind! Right now i'm working on a couple of things to make the site more interactive and learning how to add more content. I'm hella excited, even if no one else is. Stay tuned fam, its definately gets greater later.

Side note- Thanks to the Captain, all the soldiers, the one with the beautiful voice, and the crowd on Friday for that blessing. It certainly wasn't my time to leave, but it is most certainly my time to shine, and that's exactly what I intend to do...