Same sh*t, different day

I am supremely annoyed this morning. Don't know why. This morning is no different from any other one. Wake up(alone), eat cereal(alone), get ready for work, blah blah blah. I am so overwhelmed and tired right now. There are about four projects that I'm working on, all of which require my undivided attention. Along with that, my son is home from summer vacation, there is drama in my family, and I still have my responsibilities at work to contend with. Oh yeah, lets not forget the "joys" of being in a long distance relationship. Whew! I love it though. I know that one of these days I'm going to drag myself out of bed and success will be waiting to greet me. Sooooo, hi ho, hi ho, it's off to work I go...

later
Nik

YEAH BABY!

Jun. 17, 2009
Same-Sex Partners To Get Fed Benefits

President Barack Obama, whose gay and lesbian supporters have grown frustrated with his slow movement on their priorities, is extending benefits to same-sex partners of federal employees, a White House official said.

Obama planned to announce his decision Wednesday in the Oval Office, the official said. The official spoke on the condition of anonymity because Obama had not signed a presidential memorandum putting his plan into place.
The decision is a political nod to a reliably Democratic voting bloc that has become impatient with the White House in recent weeks.
Several powerful gay fundraisers withdrew their support from a Democratic National Committee event June 25 where Vice President Joe Biden is expected to speak. Their exit came in response to a Justice Department brief last week that defended the Defense of Marriage Act, a prime target for gay and lesbian criticism.
Gays and lesbians also fretted as the White House declined to intervene in the cases of enlisted military members facing courts-martial for defying the Clinton-era "don't ask, don't tell" policies. Gays and lesbians can serve in the military now if they do not disclose their sexuality or engage in homosexual behavior.
White House officials say they want Congress to repeal the policy as part of a "lasting and durable" solution, instead of intervening on individual cases.
"The president agreed that ... the policy wasn't working for our national interests, that he committed to change that policy, that he's working with the secretary of defense and the joint chiefs on making that happen," White House spokesman Robert Gibbs said last month.
The administration has tried to make small, quiet moves to extend benefits to gays and lesbians. The State Department has promised to give partners of gay and lesbian diplomats many benefits, such as diplomatic passports and language training.
But Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton's promises left out financial benefits such as pensions. Obama's move could make that shift.
Richard Socarides, a New York lawyer and former senior adviser on gay rights issues to President Bill Clinton, was taking a wait-and-see attitude on Obama's announcement.
"If it doesn't include health insurance, if he doesn't talk about the military and about the (Justice Department) brief, I think it will fall short," Socarides said in an e-mail late Tuesday. "Right now, people are looking for real action."

John Berry, head of the Office of Personnel Management and the highest-ranking gay official in the administration, told a gay rally last weekend that Obama planned to take action on benefits soon.

Series update...again

As I am still currently blogging from my beloved Blackberry or this antiquated dinosur of a p.c, I am going to wait a little longer before I post ome of the responses from the Strapology series. Something iterestin that I have noticed about the things I've been recieving is that, everyone has been telling their first time story. I was thinking more along the lines of tips and tricks to using the man when I made the request for susbmissions, but this is even more interesting.

Things that make you go hmmm.

Nik

Series 1 update:

I have gotten a few responses on the "Strap-ology 101 series. Some funny, some off the wall. What i'm going to do is wait about a week to post them at the same time. Be patient people, it is a virtue. By all means, keep sending in your responses. And tell a friend about my little blog. The more, the merrier. Its going get very interesting here, I promise!

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Ima holla
Thanks
Nik