Will Gays Go to Heaven?

That was the title of an article I read today in the May 3rd issue of Jet magazine. It was written by Bishop George Bloomer. Bloomer is currently the pastor of Bethel Family Worship Center ( bethelfamily.org ) in Durham, N.C.  
In the article Bloomer expresses that he hates how people who consider themselves homosexual have left the church because they felt all they were receiving was judgment rather than any type of spiritual guidance.He states that, "If we believe anything about what the good book says about heaven, it's a happy place that NONE of us really deserves. No matter how you classify yourself, you had better depend on God's mercy instead of your inherent goodness." I thought that was super heavy. It makes perfect sense, but as we are all aware, common sense ain't common. The Bishop goes on to say, "Is homosexuality an unforgivable sin? No. The only unforgivable transgression is to smugly refuse to bow down before your Creator. That arrogance certainly isn't limited to any particular sexual orientation, nor to any particular kind of sin."

This article opened my eyes in a couple of ways. I wasn't aware that there was a such thing as an unforgivable sin. I also wasn't aware that there was a Bishop out there with the good sense in a grape to understand all of this. Sorry.  After reading the article I did a little research on Bishop George and came across this lovely little hate filled in the name of Jesus blog>>> exministries.wordpress.com Beybey, they where non too pleased with the good Bishop's stance  (or in their eyes, lack thereof) on the subject. But I'm not the least bit surprised by that. It did my little lesbian heart good to read this article. My mind is generally blown on a daily basis by the amount of hate and ignorance that I encounter all dressed up as religion. Thankfully, there are some who have not drank the group think kool-aid and will stand up for what should be plain, clear, and obvious to everyone.


We are all the same filthy rag before HIM.Get over yourselves...


Good Day
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WAIT, WHAT THE HELL?! WELL HOW ABOUT THAT?! LOL

OK How about this:
My homegirl (girl A) used to date this chick (girl B). Nothing major, just a quick little fling. They did the do of course, because lesbians CAN NOT keep their hands off one another (LOL).  Anyway, they end up just cool friends. Fast forward. Girl B meets this other chick (girl C), who happens to be SUPER CLOSE with A. B and C don't know this at the time. They start talking and hit it off. Lots in common, good convo, all of that... Then they find out they have that mutual friend in girl A. Yep. Ok so now what? For me its simple. They can be NOTHING more than friends. If you have slept with, or even been to lunch on some "lets check each other out ish" with anyone I consider a real friend, its a wrap. Your ass is and un-dateable and MOST DEFINITELY un-f*ckable. Now had it been just an acquaintance or any other random associate, I would at least give it a second thought, but A and C are BEYOND close. So for me, its a wrap. Its unfortunate too, because from what I can tell, B and C where REALLY where hitting it off. Listening to them talk was so super cute. I could tell it was giving C something she really needed, as she was coming out of a very stressful situation in her life. But OH-THE-HELL-WELL. However, everyone doesn't think like I do(as a matter of fact, NONE of the people I LIKE think like me at all). I know some people are going to say that there are far too few eligible women to allow a good one to slip through your fingers based on some one time fling bs. Or, if the friend was totally cool with it, (which she is) and it only happened once, blah blah blah, go for it...
I can't even do it, nor can I cosign Girl C doing it. This just goes to show once again, how freaking small the black gay community is. Of all the lesbians everywhere, these two find each other and hit it off... SMDH.


Anyway
Input please


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Touch me Not Studs... What.The.Hell?

I know I haven't posted in along time. Technically this applies a locked and loaded post. So here ya go I.C.! Sorry for the delay.


THESE TOUCH ME NOT STUDS CAN GO THE HELL ON!


That is the dumbest ish I have ever heard of in my life. 
Im sorry but it is.


I just saw a video on Youtube where this lesbian couple are discussing the "touch me not" syndrome. 
The femme chick was expressing how she had to kinda coax her stud girlfriend into allowing her to perform the business. The stud chick stated that she had been a a "touch me not" chick for about 8 years. 
*blink blink* no, no, no, just NO.
This b*tch said she hadn't gotten head in 8 years. 8 YEARS???!!!
Hold up, let me tell you one damn thing right now: Let me not get some head in 8 MONTHS, imma be a raging bitch. Hell, even 8 WEEKS and im not gonna be the nicest person either. But 8 YEARS?! GURL BYE... 
You dont even wanna know! 


The other thing that really irked me about this video is that the stud chick was so overly concerned about how she sounded. Her girl said something like "you be calling my name all cute." Stud chick got kinda mad and replied," uh uh, I never call your name like that, u know I use my deep man voice." Like she was overly concerned about maintaining her "masculinity." Who the hell cares if you sound like a dude? You are NOT a dude!Get over yourself! 
Now I understand that there are studs, lots of women period,  that have had terrible things happen to them that cause them not to want to be touched in that way. These are not the ladies that i'm referring to. Im talking about these faking ass imma dude type-a-broads that are so sold on the fantasy of maleness, that they don't want anyone to get at the vajay-jay. It makes no sense.And what if you're in a relationship with someone who genuinely ENJOYS giving head? Thats just not fair to them. I wouldn't last 5 seconds in that one. Sorry.  


Now to be fair, I have to say that these lesbians that don't like penetration confuse me too, but not as much. If you go long enough without wearing your earrings, the hole WILL close. And re-opening that mutha hurts. So, yeah, I kinda get it, kinda not. But anyway, these ratchet ass studs bay bay. A mess.


Enough of this silly sh*t. Im going to bed. 


*Sips Chandon*
And good evening...
Imperial Star