1 RECOGNIZE WHAT HAPPENED

    once you accept and believe that it is over, you can start the real healing process. 

2. FEEL (AND ACCEPT) THE ANGER

    let it burn. period. and its gonna burn bad. but deal with it.

3. GET SUPPORT

    call on YOUR friends. not your mutaul friends. just those that are gonna be there and remind you how awesome      you are. cuz we tend to forget this when we get blindsided. 

4. MOURN THE LOSS, BUT DON'T WALLOW IN SELF PITY

    Mourn the person being gone. You loved them, so clearly they where someone very special in your life. but do not   stop living. and stay away from drugs and/alcohol. this will make it all worse.

5. GET CLOSURE

    say whatever it is you feel to that person. if they wont see you or talk to you. write it down and burn it. but get it out.

6. NO REBOUNDS

     DON'T DO IT!!!!!

7. LET IT ALL OUT

    kick, yell, scream, whatever. its extremely therapeutic. 

8. LOOK AT YOURSELF

    dumper or dump-y, it takes 2 to tango. think about what part you played in this. so you don't drag it to you next relationship. 

9. "THAT WHICH DOES NOT KILL US, MAKES US STRONGER"

     remember that tomorrow is another day. and no matter how bad you feel, this will not kill you. 

10.LET GO AND LET GOD...

     self explanatory

Bye...

 STAR

Miss Nikki Chanel

MY WISH LIST...

Since I haven't gotten a birthday or Christmas present in 2 years (not including the Mercedes I bought myself), I thought I would put together this little wish list for you all. So listen up lurkers, followers, and anyone else who may want to take pity on me *cue violins*.


1 Christian Louboutin Greissimo Pump size 8.5 9
2 new rims for the new whip (stock only, no hood ish for my baby)
3 amex gift cards (in any amount over $100)
4 target gift cards (in any amount over $30)
5 MAC Book pro
6 purple ipod
7 purple ipod
8 purple ipod
9 purple ipod
10PURPLE F*CKING IPOD

Feel free to start anywhere on the list. 

KAYTHNXBYE


*Twinkle*

You could learn a lot from a homewreker, in the right outfit.

REASONS WHY I LOVE THIS SONG AND VIDEO

#5 Ms. Sleeze Keys reminds me that even world class, amazingly talented, stunningly beautiful celebs get into hoe-sh*t every now and then. Of the 50-11 million SINGLE men and women (please believe that Ms. Keys gets down) that would die for this chic, she picks Swizz Beats ugly, big-nosed, MARRIED a*s. 


#4 The lyrics are super honest and real. She's saying something positive but it doesn't sound like EVERY OTHER heartbreak song


#3 Her makeup is BANGING


#2 That purple bodysuit


#1 The rear view of her in the above mentioned purple bodysuit is doing something to my spirit.




*STAAAAAAAAHHHHHH*

Just a Thought

You know what's really nice? Morning sex. Early morning, stanky breath, bed head and all that. Its awesome. Unfortunately, I sleep alone. Boooo