So Extra(did i miss the memo?)

Please, please, please will someone tell me why we gots to act a damn nut all the time? I work in a public place and almost daily, one of "us" comes thru showing they ass! I am truly agitated right now. I just saw tonight's episode of "let's act a damn fool" which included a full reproduction of the routine from Beyonce's Single Ladies video. Really. So I just need to ask this question. Why we gots to be so extra? Ugh!